Monday, March 22, 2010

actor in us

we are actually born with good acting skills.. our acts, our words, our thoughts.. all are written in a script we never knew that we have.. we've always been a good actor of ourself.

life is all about give and take. you give and you take. and you permit people to give and take from you. that sound so perfect. so, if people resists to give, why must you care to take, right? sometimes, you insists on people to give. and you take. and forgot that you must give back..(so that you can take back)... what's so difficult in understanding that?

we can never pick our family. family will always be the biggest takers.. they got money issue, they ask us for loan. they got image issue, they ask us for (free) consultation and to some extend we need to finance the make-over. they got friends issue, they ask us for ideas on how to ditch the friends.. they ask and ask and ask, and they take.. always that we forget we are also they.. part of family..

we can pick our friends. as we grew with time, we tend to lost many friends. still, those who stick by will always be our good loyal friends. we stick to the friendship because we don't mind giving, and we don't mind taking. like family, these friends are also families.. at least that's how we defined ourselves.

back to acting - giving & taking - we got confused. we want to stop giving just because we never take. as blood runs thicker than water, we can't just stop giving. we wish we don't have to take to those who never want to give. as God is Great, we can't predict what He has plan for us and we just have to ask to take no matter what no matter how. and there's where the acting skills come in. 

it just that; give and take should be mutual. and just sad when this fact was ignored... especially when the bond is there.

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