a guy friend just lost his wife last two weeks; they lost to a battle, with cancer. it was a sad sob story. i got goosebumped reading the announcement email, and another goosebumped when i heard the story. the wife was diagnosed with liver cancer three years ago. there were not married then. he proposed to her last March so that he could take care of her when she was sick. he stuck by her and truth to his word. he was there till her last breath.
gosh, it is a scary thoughts. i don't know to deal with it should it happen to me. and all i can do is pray religiously that it doesn't happen to me or to anyone i know. it is beyond thinking.
my husband been travelling on and off..often, and far. he risks his life, especially when the corporate been thinking what's best to safe money rather than to practise good HSE. i keep on praying if anything happen to him, or me, (touch wood, Nauzubillah), how do we cope and react.. in short term and long term. it is still beyond my thinking.
when you lost someone you love,it is never a funny business. i attended a funeral of a good old friend's dad. her mum passed away two years ago, and now, it was his dad. she's not married but blessed with good siblings and nieces and nephews. she's a strong girl. she broke down when she saw us, and we broke down too. i never met his father when he was healthyly alive. and i sill felt the lost.
if only we can opt not to lose anybody we love and know....
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