we love and respect both our parents dearly, but then again, please do not doubt that, if we have to choose, live or dead, your mum or your dad, the likely answer would be your mum!
not because she's a woman.. but she's a very special woman. yup, your dad would die for you too (some, may be even consider that), but your mum did put her life at risk the moment you decided to reside in her womb.
imagine a cyst, a 0.05nanometer cyst in your body. as a normal human body, your body would react to that stranger. definitely would.. and imagine a life form in your body. at the seventh week, surprisingly measuring to only 12.33mm, you could really take control of that old lady body!
her hormones haywired. she's hungry but she could hardly eat. she's thirsty but she vomitted. she could even stand, much to do other things, even taking her own bath.
those are worst scenarios.. and agree with me when i said i wasn't exagerating.
ok, of course your dad will be there for you.. he had to bear with that whiny clingy mum of yours who wanted everything and decided later on she couldn't take anything. to the extent, he had to increase his volume coz your mum just don't bother listening, and he knew he did what is best for both his wife and the baby.
but then again, before we were 'complete' human, mum and all parts of her body, nerves, hormones, bones, muscles..everything is there, to get us to the world, safe and healthy.
of course, the growing up, dad will be in the picture, together with mum. mum can't do it alone, though there will be one in a million jewels of single parent who outshines others.. but by nature, both mum and dad supposed to be there for you, and as a kid you supposed to love and care for them for the rest of your life, as much you owe them your life!
on the other hand, nobody can compensate that 40 weeks (more or less) us trying to be comfortable and that warm womb of our mommies....
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