tell him

the song 'tell him' by vonda shepard, the ost from ally mcbeal been playing over and over and over again in my mind.. and i just realized how much i love that song once upon a time and i could repear the whole song over and over and over again from my player.. yup, i have her CD.

Tell him Lyrics:

I know something about love. You've gotta want it bad
If that guy's got into your blood, go out and get him
If you want him to be the very part of you
That makes you want to breathe, here's the thing to do...

[Chorus:]
Tell him that you're never gonna leave him
Tell him that you're always gonna love him
Tell him, tell him, tell him, tell him right now

I know something about love. You gotta show it and make him
See the moon up above. Reach out and get it
If you want him to make your heart sing out
And if you want him to only think of you...

[Chorus]

Ever since the world began it's been that way
For man and woman were created to make love their destiny
Then why should true love be so complicated? Oh...

I know something about love. You gotta take it and
Show him what the world is made of, one kiss will prove it
If you want him to be always by your side
Take his hand tonight and swallow your foolish pride and.. 
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not sure if i would advise my daughter to just go to her dream guy and swept his feet away by telling him how insanely in love she's falling for him... nope, i don't think i would tell her to do that..

being in love is always a great feelings...being in love with the perfect man for you of course is a wonderful blessing. now doubt, in relation, there'll be some moves we make that might hurt our significant others, there'll be vows we break without noticing, there'll be smiles we fake just to hide our true feelings, there'll be claims "nope, i'm fine" we stake though we know (and he knew too) and hope truth will prevail. well, after eleven years, i can't deny the facts. love is not always fairy-like ever-after sweet-charming-prince-kissing-you-every-night (and let you sleep in peace*wink wink*). but love is wonderful; the greatest wonder if you can find one true ones, but the greatest heartache, in nanoseconds, if you've been betrayed.. (okay, perhaps there's more great wonders such as getting the latest coach collection at no charge, straigt from the oven).

but then again, to find love, we have to find the right man to fall in love and to kindly return us the favour. for some lucky biatch, that man is just right next door.. but for some, they search high and low till the end of the world, and still searching.. some may lost hopes, some may keep on hoping.

thinking back, i might have regretted that i've made it easy for him to woo me. he lured me with fancy gifts, dinners, bouquets, and i was all over him. i may not tell him directly, but the first hint i gave him, he caught my falling star straight away. and i Thank God everytime i count my blessings for that. they said, 'easy come, easy go'.. alas, playing hard to get might not be the best option especially when time is not on your side.  

so, when we found love, and we are sure that is the funny thing they called love, no harm telling him.. you might not want to be in position to just let it go away and never come back.. of course you could console yourselves by telling you "it never meant to be".... what a waste :(